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THURSDAY, FEBRUARY 18, 2016 www.italoamericano.org 12 L'Italo-Americano I t is widely believed that Sicilians, unlike Neapolitans, are not very expansive with their emotions. They are usually represented as brooding, somber characters who are more prone to explode in anger rather than in laughter. D. H. Lawrence who spent quite a bit of time in Taormina and wrote Lady Chatterley's Lover there, which is the story of his wife's affairs with local men, wrote the following about the character of Sicilians: "These Sicilians are all grave and black inside and without hope." And Leonardo Sciascia, Vincenzo Consolo and Gesualdo Bufalino, have frequently portrayed them as sullen, resigned, taciturn and desperate individuals who do not know how to sing or laugh. The American media too have contributed in no small part to create the stereotype. Consider the characters of the Corleone family in the Godfather movies. Don Corleone as played by Marlon Brando first and then by Robert De Niro, never cracked a smile or laughed throughout the length of the two movies. Al Pacino's portrayal of Michael Corleone was even more somber. As the strong, silent type, Michael bore the weight of his family's woes upon his shoulders. If he had a sense of humor he gave no evidence of it. No wonder Sicilians have the reputation of being people who always wear long faces, with the corners of their mouths turned downwards, sad islands unto themselves. Sicelitude has come to mean for some discouragement, resignation, fatalism and brooding silence. I want to explore this myth and try to answer the question: do Sicilians have a sense of humor? Do they know how to laugh at themselves and at the world? Dealing with Sicilians you cannot be too categorical and absolute in one way or the other, because they are complex individuals and the moment you think you found the key, another door presents itself on which the key does not work. Nevertheless, I will try to chip away at this stereotype and suggest that Sicilians have a highly developed sense of humor that has accompanied them through their three thousand years of history. In fact, it would be quite ironical if Sicilians did not possess a keen sense of humor. Only by seeing the tragic events of their history through a carnival reflecting mirror could Sicilians have survived to this day as independent thinkers, only by adopting a reflective attitude that is universally accepted on the island as a just response to the vicissitudes of life could they have overcome the ever present temptation to become tragic figures. That attitude is expressed in a nearly untranslatable exhortation Sicilians use as advice to others when things get too overwhelming. The expression is "futtitinni!" No matter how important things are, this advice tells people that nothing is worth getting sick over it. "Futtitinni" means "don't let it weigh on you too much, don't be obsessive about it!" This expression was brought to a grotesque dimension by Pirandello when he invented "la filosofia del lontano" for one of his characters. "The philosophy of distance" was a character's response to the tragedies of life. In order not to be too upset by painful events, this Pirandellian character projected them into the past, pretending they happened not that day or the week before, but years before. Thus when one day his young daughter died he reacted by being cheerful as though the death had occurred many years before. Pirandello's "filosofia del lontano" is a form of "futtitinni" to the nth degree. It's born from the same attitude that places inner peace, tranquility of mind, above the ups and downs of daily life. It is a desire to smooth over the rough and rocky road on which Sicilians have had to walk in their history. I want to illustrate the quality of Sicilian humor with a story from Vallelunga Pratameno related by the local priest. The patriarch of a Sicilian family passed away in the hospital of Caltanissetta. The family was immediately approached by a funeral director who offered his services. He was a fast talking man, well dressed, with dark glasses who convinced the disconsolate family that his firm could be trusted to provide unparalleled services to bury the deceased. He offered to take care of everything, the coffin, a suit for the dead, a funeral car to take the body back to Vallelunga, he even offered to provide a priest, if the town did not have one, quoting a price for each item. The total came to a mere two million and three hundred thousand lire, less, of course, a three hundred thousand lire discount that he would give them, seeing that they seemed such a "nice" family. Before they could reflect on the offer, he pushed a contract before the confused and grieving son who, overwhelmed by the avalanche of words, signed it. But as they walked out of the hospital, they realized what they had done, and began to question the deal. "We should have said no," said the son, "but he didn't give us a chance to say a word". The uncle voiced his disappointment, too. But it was the newly made widow who in spite of her inconsolable grief came up with the following remark: "So much for this, so much for that," she said, "we will provide this service and that service, he even wanted to provide the priest! Thank God that we provided the body…" The woman did not have to complete the sentence. But she meant, "God only knows what he would have charged if he had to provide the body too," a very funny remark worthy of Pirandello. The woman clearly rose above the sorrow and suffering of the moment forgetting her loss in the bitter- sweet smile that must have accompanied her remark. That is an example of Sicilian humor. And it is a perfect illustration of what Cicero, the great Roman orator who spent a year in Marsala as a high official of Rome, said about Sicilians two thousand years ago. For Cicero, Sicilians were "an intelligent race, but suspicious and endowed with a wonderful sense of humor." He even added that "no matter how terrible a situation may be, Sicilians always have a witty remark to make about it." The poor widow's utterance rising above her grief confirms Cicero's insightful characterization. Cicero himself told a little story to show how Sicilians can inject humor in the most difficult situations. In the anecdote a Sicilian was commiserating with a friend in his garden next to a fig tree that his wife had used to hang herself. The man was berating the tree for sharing some responsibility for his wife's act. The other Sicilian, after expressing his deep condolences and offering words of comfort, proceeded to ask his bereaved friend: "Do you think I can have a seedling from this fig tree? I'd like to plant it in my garden!" Needless to say, he hoped the fig tree might produce a similar effect upon his wife. I think that this tendency by Sicilians to come up with a witty remark that somehow overturns a difficult situation can be considered an Italian trait. Certainly, the taste for funny retorts, for the appropriate witty "battuta" is as Italian as spaghetti. Boccaccio actually devoted two full days of his Decameron to the "motti arguti" (witty retorts). But on Sicily they have a special character. Sicilian humor is generally reflective, ironic, inward turning, self-directed. Let me give you a few samples starting with some proverbs. As Vitaliano Brancati pointed out, Sicilian proverbs are not malicious or sly as Tuscan proverbs are. Consider the following: "Scappari non è virgogna, quacchi vota è sarvamentu di vita!" Running counter to the accepted mode of behavior (in Sicily, to run away from a fight is generally deemed a shameful act. You must stand your ground!), this proverb says that Sicilians are pragmatists with a sense of humor, after all. But the proverb that speaks volumes of the Sicilians' inward-turning humor is, "ringraziamu a Diu pi chiddu chi nni duna, e a lu re pi chiddu chi nni lassa!" (We thank God for all he gives us and the King for what he leaves us!), in which the Sicilians express their profound resignation to being subjects to forces beyond their control while continuing unperturbed their journeys through life. Jane Vessels' article on Sicily published in National Geographic (Aug. 1995) offers us another example of Sicilian humor by describing a little dialogue between two drivers stuck in a Palermo's traffic jam. Traffic is not moving at all and a woman keeps beeping her horn. The man in the car next to her, irritated by her useless beeping, turned to her and barked "But Do Sicilians Have a Sense of Humor? GAETANO CIPOLLA LIFE PEOPLE MOVIES MUSIC BOOKS Continued to page 13 Janus, the Roman god of gates and doors (ianua), beginnings and endings

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